What is self-belief? – All your actions are motivated by the basic element called your self-belief. It is a prime force and a driving engine that operates human experience. If you consider destiny or God or nature or whatever you believe is responsible for the happenings of your life, here is the message for you. God is just an observer and is ready to assist the way your beliefs and actions fall in place. If you want your life to be the way you wish, don’t scare to believe yourself crazily!
Why you must have self belief?
An ancient story about self-belief
Once, a poor launderer John had been washing clothes on the riverside. While rinsing a cloth, he caught up a coin by the passing water. He was highly surprised by the coin because it is an Adhir (a divine coin). A rare bronze coin and people had a belief that if the coin comes to someone’s possession he would be rich and successful.
John kept the coin with high secrecy even unknown to his own family. He packed the coin by a piece of cloth, sealed it well. He would carry the coin with him wherever he goes and often would touch to feel the impression of the coin and resume the day.
A few years passed, John becomes very rich and successful as one of the influential men in the town.
One fine day, he thought to clean the coin and repack it by a new cloth. It was a big shock to him when he unpacked the coin; the coin was just a normal one but an Adhir. Out of high frustration, he called out all his family for an inquiry. He yelled at everyone at the peak. Finally, with no option left, his wife come front and confessed as it was her mistake and said “oh John! One night I was dusting your shirt while the pack flew away through the window. I couldn’t find it back even after a serious search. As not to disappoint you at the moment replaced a fake pack in your shirt”. John impatiently asked, “when did this happen?”
The period she informed was THE TIME JUST A FEW DAYS AFTER WHEN HE GOT THE COIN AT RIVERSIDE.
He realized, it is not the divine coin that made him rich but of his SELF BELIEF.
4 ways to improve your self-belief
- Know Your Value
Among millions of species in this universe, humans are highly organized by nature. Only the human can reshape this planet, by the way, it was in the past and transformed the way now it is as wished by the humans. Likewise, you can transform yourself without any limitation once you realize the value of yourself. Knowing your value offers confidence to self-belief.
- Feel Blessed
Everyone has their pros and cons in their character, personal life, and profession. If you start comparing your cons with someone’s pros, you don’t get time to experience life’s journey. The time when you think of your problems others may jealous of your blessings. Self believing requires self-pride and your blessings make you feel pride.
- Focus on Yourself
The world has full of distractions by the mode of people, technology, and of course by your thoughts. The whole humankind acts upon the way direct by these elements. You are not even given the chance to think of own inner sense. Enhance the skill to focus on own self in deep would penalize all these elements and make them as your servant.
- Optimize your thoughts
The more you think of something the higher you start to believe the same. Your thoughts are like a guide that indicates the way in or out to your belief system. Even the great kingdom trip over to misery by a poor leadership thought. Be cautious about your thoughts and actions and take them under your control. Turn your thinking capacity into the most optimized genre. Hence, your strong beliefs fall in place the way you direct.
It is time for the wake up within you. Break all those closed doors that you believed as obstacles. Consciously check every bit of your beliefs that convert into reality. If it doesn’t fall into the way as you wish to change, make new beliefs.